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  • Ctexasgurl26Ctexasgurl26
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:3ed0ee7c-0a2d-4e4a-9c44-cf14c1c743e4">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]WAIT, I take it back. I totally support the framing of nail photos and forcing BMS to get them done....just look at the possibilities. This seriously would go on my wall. One girl could have Animal, one could have Rowlf, and one with Fozzy or Gonzo.
    Posted by MuppetFan[/QUOTE]

    I want Gonzo! Those colors would so match my wedding........LOL
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  • unchatenfranceunchatenfrance
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:4ee1a985-5a16-4513-842e-39e5391ea258">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm curious,  luv2cook13 .... Were you honestly expecting us to say "ugh, that wench has no respect for you on YOUR day!!!!  Kick her to the curb for not doing the matchy-matchy nails!!!"
    Posted by TXKristan[/QUOTE]

    <div>That's what weddingbee is for!</div>
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  • Liatris2010Liatris2010
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:40b100d8-468a-4590-add7-40b360791355">Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?: But then they wouldn't MATCH. They would just coordinate. Which works too
    Posted by misshart00[/QUOTE]

    I hate that new coordinating trend. Matching is better because everyone knows twins are hotter than sisters, so I want my BMs to be as twinny as possible! />footstomp<
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  • TXKristanTXKristan
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:3ed0ee7c-0a2d-4e4a-9c44-cf14c1c743e4">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]WAIT, I take it back. I totally support the framing of nail photos and forcing BMS to get them done....just look at the possibilities. This seriously would go on my wall. One girl could have Animal, one could have Rowlf, and one with Fozzy or Gonzo.
    Posted by MuppetFan[/QUOTE]



    Dibs on Miss Piggy!
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  • KnottieKnottie
    They actually make Muppet nail polish!!  In all seriousness, at least one nail will have a Kermit on it at my wedding.... I have real nails so I don't know how this works but, I can be determined.
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  • PeledreamsofrainPeledreamsofrain
    edited March 2013
    Awright girls, let's get serious here.....

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  • OwningAHome1981OwningAHome1981
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:31c6e39e-c629-4abe-97f5-43ae4177fb4c">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]They actually make Muppet nail polish!!  In all seriousness, at least one nail will have a Kermit on it at my wedding.... I have real nails so I don't know how this works but, I can be determined.
    Posted by MuppetFan[/QUOTE]

    OMG is that Bunson and Beaker??
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  • misshart00misshart00
    In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?:[QUOTE]Awright girls, let's get serious here..... Posted by Peledreamsofrain[/QUOTE] Now this is perfect for wedding nails. Grr. I don't know why I didn't make my girls all get matching sparkle nails with characters.
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  • Ctexasgurl26Ctexasgurl26
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:8bfceade-af7c-452e-95d8-34ad269a2323">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Awright girls, let's get serious here.....
    Posted by Peledreamsofrain[/QUOTE]

    Love those nails!
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  • CourtaniaLynnCourtaniaLynn
    Kick the bridesmaid out. And then OFF WITH HER HEAD (and nails)
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  • KnottieKnottie
    edited March 2013
    My work computer now has 10 photos of muppet nails saved on it. This will happen. Oh yes. Damn, OP is a freaking genius. We should all bow down in shame for questioning her...I just didn't fully realize the dream

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  • TXKristanTXKristan
    Muppet can, we all need to walk in to this song .....http://youtu.be/bFw4L7-AFdw
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  • CourtaniaLynnCourtaniaLynn
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:f57405e0-3482-4672-ac76-03c90ca44a61">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Muppet can, we all need to walk in to this song ..... <a href="http://youtu.be/bFw4L7-AFdw" rel="nofollow">http://youtu.be/bFw4L7-AFdw</a>
    Posted by TXKristan[/QUOTE]

    <div>My wedding party is walking in to The Rainbow Connection :D I wanted to enter the reception with a big tap dancing epic to "Life's a Happy Song" but FI said we're both too uncoordinated to tap dance.</div><div>
    </div><div>Funny, he never said it would be over the top...</div>
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  • kjhowdkjhowd
    edited March 2013
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:31c6e39e-c629-4abe-97f5-43ae4177fb4c">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]They actually make Muppet nail polish!!  In all seriousness, at least one nail will have a Kermit on it at my wedding.... I have real nails so I don't know how this works but, I can be determined.
    Posted by MuppetFan[/QUOTE]

    I have nothing for the OP, but my sister had the OPI color "Meep Meep" (I think that's right) of the Muppet Line they did right after the movie came out for my wedding.

    Of course, all my girls had different colors on their fingers and toes because I couldn't give two shrits about their nails.
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  • KnottieKnottie
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:003898f7-8643-4fee-9825-11a7dbce05e9">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out? : OMG is that Bunson and Beaker??
    Posted by OwningAHome1981[/QUOTE]

    This was my Bunsen costume years ago:
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    and this was what I brought for the party that I went to as Bunsen: <a href="https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/290_17895559795_9093_n.jpg" rel="nofollow">https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/290_17895559795_9093_n.jpg</a>
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  • Liatris2010Liatris2010
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:0397ab1c-f4b6-448d-9d5d-5bfacf63183f">Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out? : Very true. Sisters... Twins...
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    Twins win!
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  • KnottieKnottie
    Yup. I totally walked down the aisle to The Rainbow Connection. And cried the whole way down. Our videographer used it for a lot of the first part of the tape, so now watching that makes me cry, too. Every. Dang. Time.
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  • PeledreamsofrainPeledreamsofrain
    In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?:[QUOTE]In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?:In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out? : I hate that new coordinating trend. Matching is better because everyone knows twins are hotter than sisters, so I want my BMs to be as twinny as possible! /gt;footstomplt;Posted by Liatris2010Very true.Sisters...Twins... Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE] Your logic is flawless
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  • LoopysevenLoopyseven
    Bridesmaids are not photo props.  It's nice that you're willing to pay for the extras your asking for, but I don't think nails are a hill to die on.  Period.
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  • KnottieKnottie
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:f57405e0-3482-4672-ac76-03c90ca44a61">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Muppet can, we all need to walk in to this song ..... <a href="http://youtu.be/bFw4L7-AFdw" rel="nofollow">http://youtu.be/bFw4L7-AFdw</a>
    Posted by TXKristan[/QUOTE]

    SO PERFECT! IT would be Muppetational!!!! 

    I'm begging FI to let me have a Muppet song in the wedding. I think Muhna Mahna would be a great entry song... but I have this album of muppet songs done by different artists that Im trying to play a lot ... he doesnt know they are muppet songs. IF they get stuck in his head long enough, he might WANT them.  He's getting baseball STDs and e-session, basebal RD cake, and baseball guest book... I should get a fingernail and a song.

    <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Muppets-Green-Album-Various-Artists/dp/B002YICN7O" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/Muppets-Green-Album-Various-Artists/dp/B002YICN7O</a>
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  • CourtaniaLynnCourtaniaLynn
    In Response to Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out? : This was my Bunsen costume years ago: https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/290_17895564795_9281_n.jpg and this was what I brought for the party that I went to as Bunsen: https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/290_17895559795_9093_n.jpg
    Posted by MuppetFan[/QUOTE]

    FI is desperately hoping that when I finally get knocked up, I'll be visibly pregnant around Halloween. He wants to go to a party dressed as the Swedish Chef, and I'm going to go dressed as an oven. Seriously.
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  • kmbryant2413kmbryant2413
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:cd0c6068-9cdb-4ca3-9275-9c2faba742d5">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out? : SO PERFECT! IT would be Muppetational!!!!  I'm begging FI to let me have a Muppet song in the wedding. I think Muhna Mahna would be a great entry song... but I have this album of muppet songs done by different artists that Im trying to play a lot ... he doesnt know they are muppet songs. IF they get stuck in his head long enough, he might WANT them.  He's getting baseball STDs and e-session, basebal RD cake, and baseball guest book... I should get a fingernail and a song. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Muppets-Green-Album-Various-Artists/dp/B002YICN7O" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/Muppets-Green-Album-Various-Artists/dp/B002YICN7O</a>
    Posted by MuppetFan[/QUOTE]

    <div>Look up Muhna Mahna by Cake! :)</div>
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  • KnottieKnottie
    I think that's awesome.  I traditionally do one muppet-related costume per year.....although I was Count Duckula  a few years ago...breaking the chain...  Last year it was Red Fraggle...on the day I was proposed to (Halloween Party). Pic in my bio somewhere.

    I want Muppet nail polish now. I want it badly. Must have.
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  • lilphillips14lilphillips14
    Unless you're doing a closeup of all your hands together or something, no one's going to care. I've looked at my mom's wedding pictures a dozen times since I got engaged, and the only one whose nails I noticed? Was my mom and dad's because they got a closeup of their hands w/ rings. And that's all anyone will give a crap about! Seriously!
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  • CourtaniaLynnCourtaniaLynn
    I love how this has turned into a Muppetfest and OP is long gone.
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  • KnottieKnottie
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:b86e4a31-6b7a-4d74-819d-7562618cae97">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out? : Look up Muhna Mahna by Cake! :)
    Posted by kmbryant2413[/QUOTE]

    Own it!
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  • KnottieKnottie
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:61e5a368-d869-4d96-94a2-c369e2ec53b7">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I love how this has turned into a Muppetfest and OP is long gone.
    Posted by CourtaniaLynn[/QUOTE]

    This is quite possibly my favorite thread EVER. I SHOULD work instead of saving muppet photos on my computer though...so I might disappear soon...might.

    LOL in a few days, you'll have some serious drama posted when I ask what to do when FI refuses to give in to a muppet song at the wedding (which is his current position. My current position is that I have 6 months to alter his position)
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  • Salsera29Salsera29
    I didn't read through all the postsposts but I want to make this clear: I play guitar. You CANNOT play guitar with long nails!! It is NOT AN OPTION for someone who plays guitar for a living to get tips. Just. Not. An. Option.
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  • zitiqueenzitiqueen
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:0efd7ccc-4b89-41fc-ba75-ec311ac72cdf">Re: bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yes, I did have a few pictures that I wanted to do with nails. That is the point. There were a few that had to do with rings and focuses on the hands. I offered drug store stick on nails. She said no. I offered for her to have it on her natural nails. No. I offered a plain french, no design. No. I offered a simple clear coat. No. Her nails look like crap. Sorry, but they're dirty, have hangnails, and they're all short, bitten up, and have calluses. She admits they're not pretty. These were pictures that meant a lot to me and I wanted to frame them, but not with dirty fingers. It's not exactly like I can tell her she can't be in those pictures. <strong>I wouldn't really kick her out, but I am frustrated that she always agrees and then says no later.
    </strong>Posted by luv2cook13[/QUOTE]

    So not only do you expect her to modify her body for your one-day pretty princess party, you also expect her to do a complete personality change? All because you're getting married?

    Sorry, pumpkin. You knew what you were signing up for when you asked her to stand up in your wedding. There are no take-backsies.

    I really do think you should kick her out though. She doesn't need a crappy friend like you in her life.
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  • LiLe422LiLe422
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bridesmaid-suddenly-backing-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:c23fe363-7d2d-4395-b167-741e2d296a60Post:0397ab1c-f4b6-448d-9d5d-5bfacf63183f">Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:bridesmaid suddenly backing out? : Very true. Sisters... <strong>Twins</strong>...
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    Twininnnnnng!!!
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